What can I do for lipstick stains on my fabric napkins ? OH NO

Well:
Scrape up what you can with a dull edge of a knife. Apply a little WD-40 or a heavy-duty cream hand cleaner(made for taking off automotive grease). Let sit a few min, then work in a drop of liquid dish soap with your fingers and flush with warm water. Once the lipstick is gone, apply laundry pretreatment product and wash as usual.