Alright where are they

Has anyone else WONDER  where the heck are the parents to Max and Ruby , I sit and watch this with my boys everyday and I wonder is ruby all by herself  taking care of max? lol I do see grandma coming over once in a while but not live their since ruby has said that they were going to grandmas house etc..before, If anyone knows this lol Please inform us Inquiring minds want to know. Or is it that im so way gone and my kids have sucked my brain dry that I just dont remember seeing them. On another hand it is disterbing knowing there are 2 kids by themselves in a house with a stove and fending for themselves LMAO. I know right know your scratching your own head and pondering the thought of "You know what? Shes right their are no parents !! LOL"

Baby making update

So thank you to all that commented on the gender chart on friday. :) it helped alot. Well i have read up on this Pre-seed and that it helps with conceieving so I ordered it and going to see what happends . If you have taken it please feel free to tell me how it went. lets hope for the best , im still going to try in may since the chart says it will be a girl .:)  And again check out my other site Sugar~N~Spice to see new items that are up and comming soon :)

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Chinese Calander gender chart

So I know you are wondering what is a Chinese gender chart. And maybe some of you have heard about it . Well I was curious is it can really perdict when to have a boy or a girl, Scarily so far it has been right for a handful of my friends that are expecting right now. Why am I talking about this you are wondering lol well... I had a miscarriage in October and I just know it was a girl ,just from the feeling and morning sickness that I was having. Well to tell you my heart was broken to pieces when I found out I was miscarring it. I do have 3 boys but I so desperatly want a girl . I had my first by conception , my twins 8 years later through IVF we had alot of trouble getting pregnant, Then 2 years later in august I found out I was pregnant , they told me that when people do IVF their chances of getting pregnant again normally rise , well I didnt believe them since it took us forever the 3nd time around, but they were right we were so shocked and happy. Untill I had the miscarriage.
  Well anyways enough of that. Then I saw on the parents.com website that chinese calander , so I was skeptical I asked all my friends their age when they conceived and the month that they did too. And I and my friends were surprised at the outcome that it was right well I have a chance in May this year then in August. So im going to eat healthy and take my prenatal vitamins to get my body ready and pray for the best.
 If their is anyone that has gone through the chinesse chart let me know im interested in hearing it , or if you were curious and clicked over to the site to see if it is right then click back hear and let me know what your outcome is . Any comments are appreciated.

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Rewardcharts...how many use this option for their children, not working for me

I have a 9 year old boy and we have made a reward chart ,so he can help us around the house ,we have had this for a year or so . Well its not working, he dosnt do all his chores anymore and rewards are not working . I love watching supernanny but my kids are not that bad , i was a preschool teacher for 10 years but not sure how to raise a tween if you want to call him that lol. anyways any ideas how to get him excited for the chore chart? Lost for ideas

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OK so here is Gretchen saying she thinks she is starting to get sattlebags, REALLY? lol she dosnt have any kids and she is fit no sense on wasting the money for nothing lol but we have money to spend ...well spend it over here cause after 3 kids I have sattle barrels LMAO . Feel free to comment

Bravo TV Video - Nobody Wants to See a Hairy Tamra

So im watching the Housewives of Orange County tonight. I am so interested if they even know how to handle their kids by themselves , I mean there are a few on there that are really with their kids but most of them have nannies and housekeepers. I remember one episode when Tammra said that it was rough cleaning the house cause they had to let their housekeepers go due to the economy. Poor thing has to do laundry and dust. lol. And sometimes the dads really dont know how to handle the kids on there , I saw and episode that one of them hands their kids to the nannie instead of dealing with the childs tantrum or telling the nannie for her to put the child in time out ...uh well HELLO thats YOUR job as a parent lol. Then there is the going to get the botox ( I would love to get botox) but after watching that episode the other night it looks painful so not to sure if i would ever get that done. And where do these wemon WORK? lol I know one does jewlery and another is in realistate lol well how about the other ones . This video is funny eventhough the economy is bad I HAVE TO GO AND SPEND TONS TO FIX MY EYEBROWS LOL.

The Mystery Of Corbin My son {Sorry so Long}

My son Corbin who is now 2 years old has had alot of issues since birth. He was born Emergency c-section I had his other twin natural then when it was Corbins turn his cord was comming out first not him so they had to stop everything and I had a thing called a dirty emergency c-section where the nurse had to literally put her whole arm up inside to hold him and the cord so the doctors could get ready and for I to get knocked out. they rushed my S.O. out of the room and delivered him as fast as they could. In the Nicu he was in there for quite a while with Oxygen and feeding tubes, Ivs' . It was a scary thing the first time I could go in there ,their were so many Drs. surronding his incubator ...I feared the worst they were trying to figure out his heart problem as well as his inverted jaw , hernia in his belly button as well as his testicles, he also wasnt holdiong anyfood he kept spiting it back up and haveing residual in his stomach, they told me his ears were to small as well as his eyes were to close together so he had to be tested for cromsome abnormalities, etc. I was so overwhelmed and didnt know how to react . All I could do was think how to fix my son to be "normal" like his other twin.

      He wasnt able to hold his oxyegen levels up by himself for a long time so his brother was able to leave with out him. which was sad its the hardest thing leaving your son at the hospital while you are bring home his sibling. you feel like you are betraying him or think that he thinks that you dont love him just those mommy things that go through your head.
Well a few weeks went by and while those weeks went by they found out that he has Aortic Stenosis (heart ) and he has to see a cardiologist for the rest of his life. also The told me he might have a syndrome . and he has bad muscles in his tummy that dosnt digest his food at the normal rate so he has meds. for that as well as pepcide to go along with that medicen then he has to have Mirrolaxx cause the meds he is taking constipates him. ughh too many for a newborn infant ,i thought.

               Well a few weeks later it was near christmas time and were were able to bring him home. I still felt that they were missing something just a gut thing. So we take him home and feedings were the worst it was so hard to feed him , he would eat(drink) his formula so slow and you need to make sure you remember to give him his meds (reglan) before he ate. otherwise you would be wearing it right away. It would take him up to half an hour to an hour to feed him and after that I had to feed his brother as well. So no sleep for me . His coloring was always blueish gray. I alsways  watched him making sure he was breathing right.
well I think it was the day before christmas eve that we had to call the doctor case he would stop breathing . They told us if we thought it was a emergency to take him to emergency.  We go thim there and they checked his O2 right away and noticed it was gravely low . and then he stoped breathing thats when nurses and doctors came rushing in with breathing things and Ivs needles and just overwheliming things, They did many tests and couldnt firgure out why he couldnt keep his O2 up. I told them well what about his chin do you think it is cutting his airway off cause its so far back . they said it shouldnt make his airway that bad to close it off that extreme . the next day was christmas eve and still no answers. so he got admitted and they ran more tests still no one would listen to me or my S.O. about his chin. The sadeest day was that day where we had to leave our newborn son on christmas eve in the PICU unit to go home to our other 2 children for christmas cause we had to make it normal for my older son to where he wasnt left out. christmas morning came we had our christmas which was so sad for me but i hid it as best as i could. We left early that morning after presents to go up to the childrens hospital to find that "SANTA" came for Corbin they actually took a picture of Corbin and Santa" together which was the sweetest thing and they had gifts for him. I cried it was so thoughtful .

Well after a week of being in there and in another wing of the hospital we were able to stay with him at the ronald mcdonald house . we were able to bring him home since he was able to keep his O2 up. It was a day later where we had to take him back because of the same thing this time they had the nerosergeon and cardiologist, ears nose throught people in there doing all there test to see what was going on. They found out his chin was blocking his airway (which I had mentioned before)and he needed a chin Extraction which they had a special plastic surgeon break his jaw and extend it with plates and screws. well the dr. wasnt going to do it but he noticed it was life or death. so the schedualed it right away they did it . let me tell you I could NOT look at my son in that kind of circumstance it brought tears to my eyes just seeing the bandages it was the most horable thing to see your 2 month old go through. after he got that done airway was much better O2 was better and he was home in march 08.

   Well now that he is 2 I have a new challange with him NOT sleeping always waking for no reason and not wanting to go back to sleep . he thrashes in his crib all night long where I think he is going to come through the wall. He has had a recent sleep study ,but before we  could do that they put him on Iron suppliments a different med and so on , nothing worked still the same.We have told the drs that daddy had the same thing at that age and when they had test done on him he was having mild sezures well they havent checked for that yet , they keepo telling us that Corbin is a mystery , I keep getting that same excuse for everything I ask the drs about. Well mommy and corbin hasnt had sleep in 2 years basically and would like answers. I find out more answers next week after they look over his results from the sleep study. their has to be something wrong, I feel it. So if you are a mother of a child with special needs please let me know if there are moms out their like me where the doctors dont listen  or if you have gone through this. By the way the cromosome testing they found out that there is no syndrome at all.

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JACKET $ 8
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